Xuan Van Ngo, 65, passed away on Saturday, September 12th, 2026 in Tulsa, Oklahoma surrounded by family. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend.
Xuan lived a life defined by hard work and quiet strength and always strived to be a provider and dependable shoulder for his family. Born on January 12th, 1961 as the oldest of 11 children, he spent his childhood in R?ch Ðùng, Kiên Giang, Vietnam before immigrating to the United States in 1981 with his family and setting up roots in Worcester, Massachusetts where he raised a family of his own. He moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma in 2005 and spent his remaining years there.
He loved spending time cooking and gardening with his wife, giving his children a tough time, doting on his grandchildren, and hanging out with his siblings. In his free time, he enjoyed fishing, watching football and soccer, and trying his luck in many things.
He is survived by his wife of over 40 years, Kieu My Phan; his children Diem, Tien, Duyen, Man, Nhung, and Huy; and his cherished grandchildren Liam, Levi, Lyvia, Ava, Bella, and Everly. He was predeceased by his parents Vo and Bay, and his sister Kimchi.
His visitation will be held from 3:00PM until 7:00PM on Sunday, September 20th in O’CONNOR BROTHERS FUNERAL HOME, 592 Park Avenue, Worcester, MA.
A private funeral service will be celebrated at 10:00AM on Monday, September 21st at OUR LADY OF VILNA CHURCH, 153 Sterling Street, Worcester. Burial will follow in ST. JOHN’S CEMETERY, 260 Cambridge Street, Worcester, MA.