Obituary

Brenda A. (MacDonald) Lavin, a cherished wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, peacefully passed away on December 17th at the age of 80, in Worcester, MA. Born on May 8, 1944, in Plymouth, MA, Brenda filled her years with love, laughter, and an unwavering commitment to her family and friends.

Brenda was the beloved daughter of William and Florence (Andrews) MacDonald and a proud graduate of Marshfield High School, class of 1962. Her early years were marked by a deep sense of community, which she carried with her throughout her life. After leaving high school, she became a dedicated worker in the hospitality industry, contributing her warmth and kindness at the Sheraton Lincoln and The Charles Restaurant. Eventually, she transitioned to a role as an Instructional Assistant with Worcester Public Schools, where she continued to nurture and support those around her.

Brenda's life was beautifully intertwined with that of her late husband, Peter A. Lavin, with whom she shared 38 wonderful years of marriage. Together, they built a life rich in love, laughter, and cherished memories. Brenda was also preceded in death by her brother, William MacDonald.

She is lovingly remembered by her son, Christopher W. Lavin, and his wife, Jennifer L. Lavin, of Leicester, MA, as well as her daughter, Jill R. Samia, and her husband, Phillip Samia, of Worcester, MA. Brenda took immense pride in her role as a grandmother, and she is survived by her adoring grandchildren, Connor J. Lavin, Mackenzie A. Lavin, and Lily A. Samia. Each of them carries a piece of her spirit, reflecting the love and guidance she provided.

Brenda was happiest when surrounded by family, and her greatest joy came from helping to raise her three grandchildren. She relished every moment spent watching them grow, cheering them on through life’s milestones, and creating a legacy of love that will continue to inspire them.

Known for her loving and caring nature, Brenda possessed an extraordinary ability to bring warmth and joy to any gathering. She had a unique talent for making sure everyone was having a good time and feeling happy. Her charisma transcended generations; she enjoyed her friends and welcomed her children’s friends and grandchildren’s friends into her heart, often forming lasting bonds with them. Brenda had a magical way of lifting spirits with her infectious humor, often lightening the mood with her playful proclamation, “You know what I could go for?… an ice cold beer!” Her unwavering devotion to family, her generous spirit, and her ability to create deep connections will forever be cherished and remembered.

In honoring her life, we invite all who knew Brenda to celebrate her memory with a gathering filled with laughter and stories, just as she would have wanted. May she rest in peace, encircled by the love she so freely gave in life.

Her funeral Mass will be held on Saturday, December 21st beginning at 10:00am in Blessed Sacrament Church, 551 Pleasant Street. Burial will follow in St. John's Cemetery, 260 Cambridge Street. Calling hours will be on Friday, December 20th from 5:00pm until 7:00pm in O'CONNOR BROTHERS FUNERAL HOME, 592 Park Avenue.

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