Michael McCabe, beloved husband, father, and friend, passed away suddenly on September 12th, 2024, at the age of 62, after a brave and enduring battle with Huntington’s Disease. Born on March 14, 1962, in Chicago, IL, Michael was a cherished son of the late Teddy and Susie McCabe. He spent his formative years in Dedham, MA, and Princeton, NJ, and graduated from The Canterbury School in New Milford, CT, where he was a standout athlete on an undefeated football team and the Captain of the Varsity lacrosse team.
After graduating from Kenyon College, Michael’s passion for the culinary arts led him to École de Cuisine La Varenne in Paris, where he earned his Grand Dimplôme certificate. He embarked on a distinguished career as a chef in Boston, working at renowned restaurants including Rebecca’s, L’Espalier, Mistral, The Four Seasons, and P.F. Changs. His culinary skills were also showcased during his time with the Kraft Group, where he prepared meals for the New England Patriots, a team he adored.
In Boston, Michael found his true joy in his family. He married Liz Spangler, and together they raised their two beloved sons, Oliver and Ben, in Dedham. Michael was deeply committed to his family, never missing a game, art show, or school performance. He also devoted countless hours coaching Dedham Youth Lacrosse, sharing his love of the sport with his boys. His warmth, kindness, and unwavering support were the bedrock of his family life.
Michael's love for Boston sports, tennis, and fishing were more than hobbies; they were integral parts of who he was, and he shared these passions generously with all who crossed his path. His culinary talents shone brightly in his home kitchen, where he often cooked meals for friends and family, creating a space of comfort and joy.
Upon his diagnosis with Huntington’s Disease in 2017, Michael faced the challenge with extraordinary courage and resilience. He became a dedicated advocate, speaking at Huntington’s Disease conferences across the country to raise awareness and offer hope. His personal journey and insights were a beacon of strength for many, and he was a passionate supporter of ongoing research and treatment efforts, working closely with his friend and doctor, Dr. H. Diana Rosas of Massachusetts General Hospital.
Michael leaves behind his devoted life partner Liz and their two sons, Oliver Michael McCabe and Benjamin Hart McCabe. He is also survived by his four siblings: Pamela McCabe Haley of Marblehead, MA; Sheila S. McCabe of Denver, CO; Wendy M. Messick and her husband Scott of Spring Hill, TN; and Christopher J. McCabe and his wife Helen of South Burlington, VT. Additionally, he is survived by nine nieces and nephews: Molly, Charlotte, and Miles McCabe; Faye, Andrew, and Grace Haley; Chris Grey and his wife Kate; Spencer Grey and his wife Ashley; and Olivia McCabe.
A celebration of Michael’s life will be held on Saturday, September 28th at St. Paul’s Church in Dedham, MA at 11AM. In lieu of flowers, donations in Michael’s memory can be made to the Huntington’s Disease Society of America at www.hdsa.org.