BUXTON- Thomas "Tom" Raymond Messer, age 66, passed away August 11th in his home surrounded by family after a bravely fought battle with cancer.
He was born in Portland, Maine on October 22nd, 1957, the son of the late Elford and Louise (Lord) Messer.
Tom graduated in 1976 from South Portland High School where he met Lori, his beautiful wife of 47 years. After graduation, He enlisted in the Navy and was stationed at Whidbey Island Naval Base in Oak Harbor, WA. Tom proudly served his country for 4 years, traveling the world on the USS Dwight D. Eisenhower and the USS Constellation, working as an Aviation Electrician's Mate, Petty Officer 2nd Class.
The past 34 years of Tom's professional career were spent as a purchasing manager at EAM, in Biddeford, Maine.
Family was a top priority for Tom. He loved catching up and sharing stories at family gatherings. He also took great pride in the strong beautiful family he and Lori created. He enjoyed spending time with his kids and grandkids, always supporting them in their interests, academics, and professions.
In his spare time, Tom could be found meticulously caring for his lawn and vegetable garden, but his true passion was fishing. Tom was a proud member of the Southern Maine Anglers Club in Buxton, where he and his fishing partner of nearly 20 years, Obie Philbrook, enjoyed catching fish and sharing stories on the many beautiful lakes across the state.
Tom is survived by his beloved wife Lori (Jackson) Messer; Children- Christopher Messer and his partner Kendra Adams of Standish and Michelle Lampron and her husband Zach of Auburn; 4 Grandchildren- Jada and her fiancee Trevor, Adelynn, Noah and Joshua; sisters - Barbara Guimond and husband Butch, and Ann Poitras; and many nieces and nephews.
Public visitation will be held on Thursday, August 22nd from 11am to 1pm with Naval Honors at the end of the visitation at Chad E. Poitras Cremation and Funeral Service Chapel, 498 Long Plains Road, Buxton. A private family graveside service will follow at 2pm at Laurel Hill Cemetary, Saco. Online condolences can be submitted at www.mainefuneral.com
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made online to The Dempsey Center at www.dempseycenter.org
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