Patricia "Patsy" (Backhoff)(Fardin) Chinchillo
Loving mother, and grandmother, and a great friend
Patricia "Patsy" (Backhoff) (Fardin) Chinchillo, 77, passed away peacefully in her sleep on Monday, July 1, 2024, at her home in Rye, NH. Patsy was a beloved figure in Tewksbury's real estate community and the cherished widow of Gary Chinchillo, who passed away in 2019 after over thirty years of marriage.
Born on December 23, 1946, in Cambridge, MA, Patsy was the daughter of the late Edwin and Mildred (Sullivan) Backhoff. Her family moved to Tewksbury during her childhood, where she was raised and educated. Patsy graduated proudly from Tewksbury Memorial High School with the Class of 1964.
Patsy's career as a Realtor spanned over 40 years. To many in Tewksbury, she was more than just a Realtor; she was a community pillar, dedicated to helping countless families find their perfect homes. She never missed a chance to share a laugh if you bumped into her in the aisle at Market Basket, or over a Mai Tai at the Jade East. Patsy was always eager to sponsor youth sports, local charitable endeavors or social events for folks at Emerald Court, embodying the spirit of her beloved town
A voracious reader and a lover of the water, Patsy found great solace on the shores of Round Pond, with Rye Beach holding a special place in her heart. She delighted in being surrounded by family and friends, and she truly adored her grandchildren. Patsy was a consummate hostess and an exceptional cook, known for bringing people together with her warmth and hospitality. Patsy's legacy of kindness, community spirit, and love for her family will be remembered by all who knew her.
Patsy is survived by her three children: Karen and Michael Noonan of Westborough, MA; James and Carol Fardin of Maplewood, NJ; and Robert Fardin and his wife, Stephanie Creegan, of Lowell, MA. She is also survived by her stepchildren: Christopher Robert Chinchillo of Boston, and Melissa Leigh Chinchillo and her husband, Paul Bodig, of Croton-on-Hudson, NY. She leaves behind ten cherished grandchildren: Sam, Julia, Harry, Isabelle, Jamie, Conor, Maggie, Catie, Tommy, and Teddy. She also leaves her former husband and good friend, Robert "Bob" W. Fardin, of Marlborough, MA. Patsy is survived by her siblings: Edward Backhoff of San Diego, CA; Marie Ellison and her husband, Richard, of Hingham, MA; and Mildred "Mickie" McShane and her husband, John, of Harvard, MA.
She was predeceased by her siblings, Janet Backhoff and Joseph Backhoff, as well as her stepson, Matthew Mark Chinchillo.
In her honor please consider making a donation to: Minute Man Arc, 35 Forest Ridge Road, Concord, MA 01742 or online at: Minute Man Arc Link
You are welcome to attend her memorial visitation on Friday, July 12, from 10 a.m. until 1 pm at the Tewksbury Funeral Home, 1 Dewey Street, Tewksbury, 978-851-2061.