WORCESTER – It is with great sadness that we announce that Jose A. Thomas, originally from Webster, was taken from this world on March 7, 2020.
He leaves his mother, Denise (Kirby) Thomas and his father, Jonathan Thomas; his best friend and partner in life Kristine Stanley; their children, Julian Thomas and Kendallynn Thomas; his first born princess, Arianna Thomas; his brothers, Michael Thomas, DJ Kirby-Thomas and Jay Thomas and his sister Zoe Thomas; his maternal grandfather Donald Kirby; his paternal grandmother, Julia (Mendez) Thomas-Doutaz; many aunts, uncles, cousins and countless friends. His brother Corey Thomas passed away on January 15.
Jose was born in Milford on February 23, 1987 and was a sweet, loving and giving person throughout his childhood and into adulthood. He was a hard worker: whatever was needed to get the job done, Jose was there. His nickname at the Salvation Army was “The Bulldozer” and he completely lived up to that name.
Always a shy and introverted person, Jose spent a great deal of time alone. He loved the outdoors where he found comfort and solace. While in a program in Gardner he told me that he would sit in the woods for several hours, listen to music and just be.
Jose loved music: he always had headphones in his ears. It soothed his soul and allowed him to escape from his demons.
Above all else, Jose wanted to be a great father to his 3 children. His happiest moments included the children and his love, Kristine. His children all possess some of his amazing traits and will surely touch the lives of others as their father has. He will be missed by the many whose lives he touched with his graciousness.
His brother DJ recently told a story about Jose. A few years ago, when DJ was going through a particularly difficult time, Jose reached out and called him to check in and give support. DJ became emotional and told his brother how hard life was at that time. With a little chuckle, Jose said “Life is hard, life is really hard.” But he added “Whatever it is you want, just go get it.” It’s advice that has stuck with DJ. After telling his story, he mentioned how smart his brother Jose was. It’s absolutely true: Jose was a quiet type of smart that was almost philosophical.
Jose struggled with addiction for many years and was always working very hard to be clean and sober. It was a constant battle. Despite the battle and the demons that came with it, Jose remained kind, generous and loving. Even after his death, he gave the gift of life and saved 3 individuals awaiting an organ donation: this was his last gift to the world.
In his memory I ask you all to get help, stay clean, support each other, help spread the word about this disease and its deadly consequences. And finally, love each other.
Visiting hours will be held Friday, July 10 from 2:00 to 4:00 P.M. with a service at 3:30 P.M. in Scanlon Funeral Service, 38 East Main Street, Webster.