LOCHMERE - Thomas P. Sellew, 62, passed away peacefully after a long and courageous battle with COPD and lung cancer.
He was born on March 21, 1954, the adopted son of the late Philip G and Sara A (MacDonald) Sellew of Natick, MA; and the biological son (nee Eamon Dennis Keyes) of the late Monsignor David Montaigne and Elinor Keyes both from Brighton MA. Tommy, to those who knew him, had an imposing presence, a larger-than-life personality, and a very big heart. Originally from Natick, MA, Tommy was educated at Marian High in Framingham, MA and at Litchfield Prep in CT. He went on to be a front-door fixture at several MA clubs and for years at the Gunstock Ski Resort, where he greeted patrons with a warm smile and a keen eye. He was equally adept at being gracious as he was at taking on groups of drunk bikers. Tommy was also known for his candid and lively letters to the editors to the local papers. In addition to being charismatic, upbeat and outspoken, Tommy also had a tender heart. For years, he took care of a wheelchair-bound, totally-dependent man who lived with them - with great care and genuine compassion.
Tommy is survived by his devoted wife Lois, with whom he enjoyed a 27-year roller coaster love affair held together by respect, trust, teamwork, patience and forgiveness. He is also survived by his brother Jon and wife Helen of Sherborn, MA, his sister Ann Ladner of Holden, MA. a number of nieces and
nephews Including Jason Sellew of Roswell, GA and his two sons Nick and Tony, along with many friends and acquaintances. While Tommy’s spirit lives on in our hearts, he will be greatly missed, especially by his loving wife Lois and me, his brother Jon.
Calling hours will be held from 4Pm to 7Pm on Friday, December 9, 2016 at the Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home, 164 Pleasant Street, Laconia, using the Carriage House entrance.
A prayer service will follow at 7Pm, also at the funeral home.
Burial will be private.
Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 164 Pleasant Street, Laconia, N.H. is assisting the family with the arrangements.