David Ross Kilcoyne, 30, died on Saturday, December 14, 2013. He is survived by his mother, Inger-Lise (Rossener) Kilcoyne; his brothers, Sean Kilcoyne of CA and Stephen Kilcoyne and his wife Dorothy of Sterling, his sister Elizabeth Kilcoyne of Ipswich and his younger sister Margaret Kilcoyne, who he always protected, her husband Timothy Horan of Woburn, and his beloved nephew Peter Joshua Kilcoyne Horan. David also leaves 5 other nieces and nephews, his close friends Brian Toomey, Joseph Topor, Brendan Hamm, and Tiffany Strout and many, many, many other wonderful friends and fellow “bear hunters.”
David was born in Worcester, son of Inger-Lise and the late John Kilcoyne.
He graduated from South High School and Clark University with a degree in Communications, but really David was a student of life. David learned from every person he encountered, always open to converse with a stranger who quickly became a friend. David embraced opportunities to travel and explore the world. He made many journeys to visit family in Norway and Ireland and traveled and lived for short periods in many parts of the U.S.
David was a dancer. Music moved him in a special way and he followed bands faithfully. He was an exceptional card player, even ranked nationally for his skill in Star Wars. He played tennis and pool with precision. He was an avid hiker, traversing half of the Appalachian Trail. David’s trail name was “Protestor” and even those who did not hike alongside him would understand why. David was very easy going but would lead a protest when he felt there was a true injustice. David’s passion was infectious.
When David could find time in his busy schedule, he worked at metaldetector.com as a jack of all trades. The owners, Michael and Daniel, brought David into their family. It would be nearly impossible to even remember all of the other jobs that David has had in his life, but he was a dependable employee for every person who hired him.
David had a very kind heart. He found fulfillment as a TREK leader, bringing kids on adventure-based, experiential learning trips. He shared many stories about the kids he worked with, believed in the work of the program and respected the others who worked alongside him. David lovingly cared for his elderly father for the last two years of both of their lives; his family will always be grateful for his selfless devotion. David truly put others first.
David the boy, you are a “boli.” Your laughter will echo in our hearts forever and the memory of your smile will continue to bring joy.
Calling hours will be held at Nordgren Memorial Chapel, 300 Lincoln Street, Thursday, Dec. 19, from 6-9pm. The funeral service will be held at Trinity Lutheran Church, 73 Lancaster Street, Friday, Dec. 20, at 11am. Burial will follow in St. John's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the David Kilcoyne Memorial Fund at https://www.giveforward.com/fundraiser/tfn3/david-kilcoyne-memorial-fund or sent directly to the family.
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